Scientists reveal 6 red
Relationship experts have identified six red flags of “micro-cheating,” subtle behaviors that might not seem like a full-blown affair but can cause emotional harm over time. These actions often take place online or in everyday interactions, and although they may seem harmless individually, they can lead to bigger problems in a relationship. According to psychologist Melanie Schilling, micro-cheating involves actions that make someone question their partner’s emotional or physical commitment. Psychologist Abby Medcalf emphasizes that these behaviors are cheating if the partner doesn’t like them or doesn’t know about them.
Six red flags of micro-cheating:
- Messaging someone else: If your partner is frequently messaging someone else, especially if it makes you uncomfortable, it’s worth having an open conversation.
- Liking a co-worker’s photo online: Liking pictures of people you find attractive, especially exes or coworkers, can be emotionally cheating.
- Checking work chats more often: Developing emotional bonds outside the relationship, like confiding in a colleague, can be a form of micro-cheating.
- Hanging around the water cooler: Initiating or excessively engaging in conversations with a co-worker might signal micro-cheating.
- Sharing details of their relationship: Downplaying or concealing their relationship to leave themselves open to others can also be a sign.
- Dressing up: If your partner suddenly starts dressing up or changing their appearance without a clear reason, it may indicate they are seeking attention elsewhere.
In any case, open communication is crucial to address concerns.